I founds OEM remote control on the internet - see below. It is Hitachi RCU-01A and on this page below they offer replacement but it is $48 and it is US. I live in Ontario, Canada and it would be cheaper then to buy brand new VCR.
[Link: replacementremotes.com]

And yes I want to get into menu where I can set time in the future to record something. On the OEM remote if you press Program it will get you to the screen where you can set time in future to record something.