There have been some Sony DSS receiver models that can be controlled via either IR or RF. I am not sure what satellite equipment you have though, as you didn't mention it, and I'm guessing that you mean to control the dish itself, as in the positioning of the dish. In this case, probably your only affordable option is to use the dish's original remote.
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