Brian,
When you say remote works, is it in an endless reboot loop?
If so, there are 2 ways to go about this.
1 Use Hyperterminal (discussed in FAQ) which you likely do not have with Vista or any terminal program that has download capability using XModem.
2 Use Tonto (
[Link: giantlaser.com]) and perform an "undead" on the remote.
A search for undead and Tonto will provide a bit more information.
If not in an endless reboot loop, it could be that you have a cold solder joint on the serial connector and you would need to get that repaired (T6 torx to crack open the case and fine-point tipped soldering iron to reheat the connections). I doubt this is the case as you can see the remote when you plug it in but I know Ernie has experienced this problem in the past.